1 in 5 relationships starts online…
For a while now Match.com has featured a TV commercial stating that 1 in 5, or 20%, of all relationships nowadays start online. The stat is also displayed on their website. In order to get this stat, Match.com worked with a research firmed called Chadwick Martin Bailey. Together they conducted 3 series of surveys , the largest had 7,000 participants and the smallest about 2,500. Amongst many of the interesting findings, they discovered that roughly 1 in 5 relationships started online. I have several friends that have met their significant others online so the statistic did not come as a shock to me. What would probably shock me is looking at the amount of money that Match.com probably spent getting this information.
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Link to the research document here.
As you can imagine, all of us here at ithinksotoo.com are firm believers in the power of “crowd sourcing” or the “wisdom of the crowds”– two terms that have gained lots of notoriety over the past few years. Putting our thinking hats on, we decided to try and see how powerful ithinksotoo.com and its thousands of users may be at answering a question similar to what Match.com likely paid thousands of dollars for. So we decided to post the following question on our site:

The question, so far, has received 780 answers. While the number is not huge, its sizeable enough for us to drive one interesting insight… 19% of all users answered the “YES” they have met their significant other online. And answer that jives remarkably well with the answer of the professional research firm.

While we understand that there are some big limitations in the amount of information we can get about the specifics about way the users are answering the question, the truth is that many of those limitations are also faced by more complicated and ‘fancy’ anonymous surveys that research firms conduct. The real power behind ithinksotoo.com lies with the quickness with which these questions can be answered, and more importantly, with how much cheaper it was for us to reach the same answer than it must have been for Match.com. In addition, because ithinksotoo.com users answer many (hundreds even) of questions, we can also derive interesting correlations between multiple questions– something that can drive more interesting insights than a one-time study may provide.
Thanks,Roberto

